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I would like to warn anyone who cares to listen about this profile http://loveme.com/women/info124763.htm In early August of 2012 I purchased a virtual email address from A Foreign Affair to send an introduction letter to the lady featured in this profile. I was...
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#2004940

Its just hard to find honest people in this world anymore. Everyone paints a beautiful picture of marrage.

But over 50% of them make the man wish he never made the decision. And has to pay for the rest of his life.

I just dont know anymore... so many trust issues with this company.!!!

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#345181 Review #345181 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Seattle, Washington
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Loss
$230

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A Foreign Affair - Fishy, fishy
A Foreign Affair - Fishy, fishy
Strangely enough there's some 40 profiles of very hot girls from Playa del Carmen, Mexico. Playa del Carmen has a population of 300k so that itself should raise a red flag. I got contacted by some 6 model type girls wanting to talk to me. I'm an average 50 Yr. old so...
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I discovered the hard way that A Foreign Affair/Loveme, contracts with a match making service called Help the Love to handle the profiles for women in Mexico. Help the Love has a presence on several social media sites advertising their match making services and looking for creative writers to work as "Profile Managers".

The profile managers/creative writers are paid to write letters for the women. So, when you are exchanging letters with a woman in Mexico you probably aren't. Another woman from Playa Del Carmen to watch out for is Maria (157688). She is a real person, we met.

I began questioning her sincerity in creating a relationship with me as she had expressed. This is when I discovered the partnership between AFF/Loveme and Help the Love. I found Maria (157688) profile has been active for over 8 years on different dating sites. She is also one of the most popular and active women in Playa meeting men from AFF/Loveme, per AFF staff.

When I filed my complaint with AFF/Loveme regarding these issues, they refunded my money from my correspondences.

It is too bad AFF/Loveme partnered with such a fraudulent company as Help the Love. Remember, the lower the profile number, the longer the woman has been on the site.

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#2481110 Review #2481110 is a subjective opinion of poster.
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$1
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A Foreign Affair smuggles third world Russian communist criminals into America to become illegal aliens or worse

Update by user Nov 19, 2020

Bad. Do not expose yourself to these people.

Original review posted by user Nov 19, 2020
A Foreign Affair smuggles third world Russian communist trash into America to become illegal aliens or worse. These women only want to steal from patsy Americans or go on welfare and get free medical which is exactly what U.S. immigration wants to stop. They will try to bring other savory family once they get a foothold and fangs in, and that is a greater foothold from the crooks that are already here. They will never change and are the lowest of the low and work with bad people and Russians in the U.S. and Russia, what Russia and the United States wants to stop.

User's recommendation: Do not aid and abet third world Russian criminals, all AFA does.

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#1956443

This is where Trump's tightening bans on illegal immigration and undesirables could have helped. Now it will only get worse.

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Not anymore, lost Nov 3, 2020.

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#2292178 Review #2292178 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Pros
  • False hopes and dreams
  • Virtually meet beautiful women promising marriage
Cons
  • Fraud
  • Criminals
  • Illegal aliens
Loss
$13
Preferred solution
Apology
New Reviewer
A Foreign Affair is a fake front dating service promising traditional marriage but delivers communist Russian enemies into your home who destroy children, families, husbands, neighborhoods and America through deception, fraud, extortion and even terror. AFA supports...
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#2262888 Review #2262888 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Cons
  • Danger
  • Deception
  • Extortion
Loss
$10000
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Let the company propose a solution

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I used the site, loveme.com, for approximately 2 months, at a cost of around $1500. Everything seemed to be going fine, met some nice ladies and appeared to be moving forward. The red flags started to pop up with the first inquiry as to how we could exchange personal...
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#2146381 Review #2146381 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Cons
  • Too many to list
Loss
$1500
Preferred solution
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Same scam to untold numbers of American men for decades. They are worse than the bad women here. The scammers in Russia or Ukraine usually ask the women to continue sending them money after marriage which they'll likely tell you after a time. Never should anyone be...
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#1956444

This needs to stop. Where is the FBI and homeland security? This needs to be investigated.

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#2043236 Review #2043236 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Pros
  • False hopes and dreams
Cons
  • Decades of most cruel misery
  • Life ruined
  • Children destroyed and suffered
Loss
$100000
Preferred solution
Let the company propose a solution
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I have detected several fake profiles and reported them but never a response or refund. One girl used someone else's photos and I complained about my suspicions after much correspondence with the girl. The fake profile photos were eventually changed but I never heard...
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#1758766 Review #1758766 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Pros
  • Good socials
  • 2 socials i attended
Cons
  • No guarantee that the girls are real writing the letters
Reason of review
Poor customer service
Loss
$330
Preferred solution
Full refund
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Guys, it’s worse than you think

Guys, it’s worse than you think. These women are real. Even the really beautiful ones. Trust me, they have no real interest in you. Well, at least not interested in meeting you. With another dating/marriage site, a girl admitted to me, once her contract was up and I found her on social media, this affords her to live a better life, where she can do things beyond her means. Like schooling and travel. With loveme.com, I think under the rule of the new guy, it’s transformed into this new scam game. At least the part of the endless letters and pictures. You can somewhat easily find these women from, Russia, Ukraine and even Mexico through social media. I’ve found and friended less than a handful, but have found and followed slightly more. But I’ve found more than enough and they all will do the same. They’ll either ignore you, block you or close their accounts. The ones you get to follow, you’ll see them on very extravagant trips and/or wearing and doing very extravagant things on a continued basis. I’ve tried contacting a couple, especially the ones I’ve gotten endless letters from telling me they can’t wait for us to be together. One got angry at me because I contacted them off dating site, the rest blocked me from seeing them. Don’t believe this *** of the company doesn’t know nor the women are unaware their profile is being used. Most of them know and I’m sorry fellas, women are the same everywhere on this earth. If women around you are not interested in you here, they’re not going to be interested in you over there either. Only if you have money falling out of your pockets. The ones I’ve found and friended, they rarely talk or acknowledge me. The ones I found and friended, as long as I don’t include my picture, I’m just another one of their hundreds/thousands of followers. The ones I’ve included my pic, they recognize me and blocked me. And that’s through only a friend request. Not even a hey it’s me. The ones I’ve included a it’s your friend, instant block. Yup sorry fellas, I’ve wasted only a small amount of cash through the years, just to see if any of this is real. It’s not. I think John was right, if you do use his site, it’s best to go on a trip and meet in person for a chance, the ones that clamber for you on online only, know there’s less likelihood you’ll ever meet them and they’re going to scam you. Trust me, if you’re a 1-7, no 8-10 is going to fall for you in any reality. The ones that would, are already taken and are in films.
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#1642709 Review #1642709 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Pros
  • Great pictures
Cons
  • Its not real
Reason of review
It’s fake
Loss
$1000
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Let the company propose a solution

What a waste of time and money

i spent 6 months trying to get to know a couple of ladies, and it just keeps dragging on as to excuses why they dont want to talk in real life, whats app, or on camera with computer. this tells me that most if not all are fake.make a trip to see them *** no if fake on computer then they be no shows and waste more time and money. several have made a number of trips and still nothing so as far as i am concerned a total waste of time and money
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#1642582 Review #1642582 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Conroe, Texas

Longest running scam site no morals or honesty

My now wife had her profile stolen and listed on love me Or Forgien Affairs by a man named Boris they refuse to take it down ? Her ID 183123 Nelly they have 5 other fake Nelly's with my wife's profile The profiles are so ridiculous Beyond belief they make her Look like she did everything in Life but be the president of The Ukraine ! Look at other women's profiles How can you be a medical doctor at age 22 ? All Ukranian so called dating Are linked together to a mother Site. They are trying to scheme To get the most money out Of men on site. To most women dating sites are a side Job to make a few Topekas Most men are chatting talking Love to a robot another man Translator or pimple faced Ukranian kid . Could you stay Up 24/7 ? To scam people Love sets up expensive trips to Meet women if you go you have to pay $20.00 a hour for a translator you know why even Though the woman may know English you were talking to the translator the whole time. Dating scams have been around since the begining of time. Buyer beware men wake Up use your brain evaluate Everything closely !! For what may seem real is so far away from reality it is beyond belief. My friend that Is the FBI internet fraud division said Forgien Affairs Love me site has over 5,000 Complaints and climbing They are based in Pheonix Arizona This PPL site will Soon be History and hopefully Owners will be imprisoned !!
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#1629286 Review #1629286 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
New York, New York
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
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A TOTAL JOKE

I called their office in Phoenix and asked could I fly to Bangkok and just attend their social and meet their ladies, of course they said no cause they wanted me to be stupid to give them about 4000 to fly over and go through their scam, problem was I worked for the airlines and could fly to Bangkok for free and would not even come close to 4000, ask your self how much are the ladies paying them to meet you at a social, of course the ladies will act submissive to get to a western country, there are too many dating sites for free or not that expensive to join and meet someone, are you that lonely, desperate to meet a foreign female?
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#1627232 Review #1627232 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Pros
  • Nice photos
Cons
  • Cost to contact a female
My finance profile was stolen By a man and posted on love me ID 38744 Nelly I tried calling Arizona headquarters Scam center no help just a lot Of BS . In her profile they wrote she has did everything Thing in life except the president of Ukraine by age 28 . Look at...
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#1606687 Review #1606687 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
New York, New York
New Reviewer
Update by user Jun 05, 2019

still sending the same old computer generated mail and are duplicates , just different pictures of pretty women all with similar occupations. same old garbage nothing new. a total waste of time and money

Original review posted by user May 06, 2019
was a member for 3 months and i finally decided to write to...
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#1528823 Review #1528823 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Pros
  • Pictures and all were fake
  • Fraud
Cons
  • Being defrauded by fake communication letters
  • Being lied to and finding out these are just paid actors
  • Fraudulent come-ons from women
Reason of review
Pricing issue
Loss
$135
Preferred solution
Full refund
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Domestic meetings

Now that I have read things here about the overseas tour, I am able to see a bit more clearly. I am thinking that most of this is just an elaborate scam. And theu can afford to pull it off based om what I have read because they are ripping us off for thousands if not millions of dollars. Then all they have to do is edit videos and show pictures of the occasional wedding which is likely between some rich guy and a hottie that claims to have fallen in love willing to give up the lifestyle. I have met 3 different women domestically in the United States. Paid $400 for each meeting and did not receive their phone numbers until the day of the meeting. One I met in Miami. The ither 2 I met in L.A. Each one I spent a couple hundred dollars in exchanging letters getting to know. They all happened to make it seem like their feelings were progressing so much. Then when I got to actually meet them it was like a completely different story. Each of them wanted to meet at some expensive place for food. Even the damned Starbucks was expensive especially after the girl ordered her organic food *** Then they lie to your face telling you how they had a great time and plan something for later but then they either don't contact you or feed you a bs line about how they didn't feel the spark or connection. They didn't feel it because they already have a boyfriend. Proof of that? One girl, all I did was try to hold her hand and she pulled away. After the content expressed in the letters about kisses and such she has a problem with simple hand holding? I'm not a bad looking guy either. But she gave off all the classic signals of a woman that was loyal to someone else. I have spent the last 3 years investing in this company trying to find the woman for me and even finally signed up for an Individual tour to Kiev in April. But now, after reading all of this I am not even sure I want to bother going all the way over there just for the disappointments. Perhaps I should chwck out Christian Filipina website.
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#1890456

Stop wasting your time trying to meet foreign women who only want to rip you off and associate with scam artists. They will consider and treat you far worse than any woman here.

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#1485608 Review #1485608 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating

Blessed to have spent an amazing 10 days in the Ukraine.

I'm truly happy and blessed to have spent an amazing 10 days in the Ukraine. My only regrets were not carrying on to Kherson and seeing the wonderful kids at the orphanage. But I did get to spend quality time with Irina and her daughter Liza so I can't complain too much. We are talking everyday and I wish I were back there now with her. She works 7 days a week and still made time for me. Most importantly, she put a smile on my face, in fact, my face hurt from smiling so much! It's a beautiful thing that you do and I very much appreciate being part of your circle. I listen every Monday night and you really put things into perspective for me. To Bud Patterson, Through you I have met some great friends. I really bonded with Scott and its very cool that he lives close by. Also Dave, and I'm very happy he has found love. I am happy for you and the path you are on and I wish you nothing but the best. Thank you again my brother, all my love and respect.
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#1382452 Review #1382452 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
Melbourne, Victoria
Service
A Foreign Affair Online Dating
Pros
  • Quality and selection of women to meet
  • Great advice from staff
Cons
  • Going back home
Reason of review
Good customer service
Full of fake profiles and girls paid to lure you in.
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#1620130

YESSS - you can type & Type & TYPE for hours & Hours & HOURS & days & Days & DAYS & they have a person(s) in an agency in EACH CITY writing the letters FOR THAT WOMAN !!! You are NOT EVEN WRITING the "real woman" - they have "file letters" that they will send OUT 1-2-3-*-*-*-*-*-*-**......WHY I KNOW this ????

ASK ANY "specific" question or even 2 &&& those questions NEVER GET ANSWERED !!! SO AFTER you spend "X" amount on ANYONE 1 of them - they just "disappear".....I KEEP DEMANDING on "Romancetale" site to tell me the FASTEST way to get "directly" to a lady on "video chat" so I can quickly see "if" her pictures DO MATCH her profile & her English level on TOO MANY of these sites - you NEVER Get there !!!

"Asiandating"......you CAN get to those girls PRETTY QUICK "far as" their email or skype address BUT....MOST (95%) or in The Philippines & have NO college - 1,2,3,4 kids from 2, 3 fathers.......PLEASE BELIEVE ME - I have "failed" 3X & my eyes, heart, brain & COMMON SENSE.....is paying EXTREME attention to detail !!!! I have NOT figured out yet how to speed FASTER through on "Romancetale" BECAUSE I have written ALMOST 200 letters & they WILL NOT CALL ME - there is NO "customer service" & you will ONLY get emails about every 3 or 4 days &&& AGAIN - DO NOT address your questions EVER !!!

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#1379962 Review #1379962 is a subjective opinion of poster.
Location
London, England
Product
A Foreign Affair Profile

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