I met two women on Love Me.com and the first one was excited up until she actually came to the states. She was returned to the Philippines after a few weeks.
The second woman was the nicest woman I have ever met and she has been my wife for over five years. I too attended AFA's Socials on one trip over but did not find the one I married until later and went to meet her and her family at Christmas, asked her to marry me then spent nearly nine long months before I brought her to the States and Married her. One has to be serious and persistent in writing and then you need to go and meet the lady, Most American men are not serious and won't do what it takes to meet these women. On line/overseas dating is expensive but if you find the right one it is more than worth it.
Also, like anywhere else you have to get to know the person as in any culture you will find women who are not what they seem but if you are observant you will know when you have found the right one. Las Vegas USA
Review about: A Foreign Affair Matchmaking Service.